Get Funky in your funk and become ‘That Girl’

I know from the title you’re sitting there confused like what is this girl talking about. You may have a slight clue or know exactly what I’m talking about. I’m talking about when life challenges you. We’re not always prepared or know when are toughest battles will come. There’s always a way out. When life kept catching up to me and beating me down I didn’t have much of a choice but to face every obstacle head on.

The first thing I did was accept my current situation and embrace it. I stopped trying to fix all my problems at once and completely surrender. “Focusing on the current condition you're blocking your improved condition.”-Abraham Hicks We have to learn how to fight life back with joy and happiness. We don’t have to let our current situation dictate our feelings or our path. We must learn to embrace our downfalls in order to get back up and continue to move forward.

I began to create more healthy habits and routines. Creating healthy routines and regimes are needed in order to live a peaceful easy going life. It helps life move in flow. Your just flowing through life. In the beginning it’ll be kind of rough to stay on a new routine and regime. Embrace every step along the way. Take slow steps if needed. Eventually it’ll come with ease and you’ll notice a difference in your days.

 Create routines throughout your day to encourage more healthy positive habits. I have a morning and night routine to start the day of positive and end on a positive note as well. No matter if I’m traveling or visiting family I stay on routine. Creating a morning and night routine has made my days flow with ease.

 Have some fun and play a little. Who told us that as adults we can’t have fun anymore and play a little? This is the key ingredient in adulting happily  and more positively. We have to take some deep breaths relax and have some damn fun. What’s your hobby? What is that you really like to do but maybe feel embarrassed or too old. DO IT! Do that thing that makes your insides smile. Maybe you just like to read a book and drink some tea. Start painting or writing. I myself enjoy creating that’s a hobby of mine. From making candles, writing poetry and painting. I love to read as well learning new things does excite me. At times I like to just turn some music on and dance around the house. You have to be the happiness in your life.

M.J Fievre